So - I'm no closer to discovering who targeted me from approx. 2010 - 2013.
For the record it did not help that my so-called friend at that time promptly deserted me as soon as it became evident that I was a victim - she CLEARLY did not want to be endangered by association.
I REALLY could have used a friend to check the accounts online that I could not access at ALL : I was locked out of everything, my email, website, the lot. My Mac was similarly being Remote Accessed denying me permission to open files, use applications etc. Alan was not well at the time plus he has even less computer literacy than I do so NOT up to taking on a hacker!
Meanwhile my flat got entered and ransacked several times. Alan kept changing the lock for me and I kept reporting it to the police but nothing transpired.
I have often been described as 'highly strung' or 'volatile'. Battling alone against all this weirdness, complete invasion of privacy and loss of CONTROL over My Stuff (I even found my artwork scribbled over) meant that eventually I was taken into hospital suffering Nervous Exhaustion. I was in there for 3 weeks.
Its very dissatisfying that no light has been shed on all of this.
However, I am absolutely SURE that the person responsible will be exposed. It may be ten years from now but it will happen.

In 2011 I found this old photo on my screen with the new title DarknessForSally. It had also been converted from a jpeg to an animated gif file. I don't have a clue how to do that stuff.